Premarital Counseling in Staten Island: 12 Essential Conversations Every Couple Should Have Before Marriage

By Kelly Gorsky, LMHC, CCP, CAMS-I, Divorce Mediator Most couples spend months planning their wedding. They choose the venue, sample the food, create the guest list, and think about every detail that will make the day memorable. Yet one of the most important parts of getting married often receives the least amount of attention: preparing for the marriage itself. A wedding lasts one day. Marriage is something you build every day afterward. As a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, I've worked with many couples who deeply love each other but have never had honest conversations about topics like finances, parenting, intimacy,…

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Are Sex and Intimacy the Same Thing? A Therapist Explains

By Kelly Gorsky, LMHC, CCP, CAMS-I, Divorce Mediator Quick Answer: Are Sex and Intimacy the Same Thing? No. Sex and intimacy are not the same thing. Sex refers to physical sexual activity, while intimacy involves emotional closeness, trust, vulnerability, and connection. A couple can have sex without intimacy, and intimacy can exist without sex. Understanding the difference between sex vs. intimacy helps individuals and couples communicate their needs more effectively and build stronger relationships. Many people use the terms sex and intimacy interchangeably. While they are often connected, they are not the same thing. Understanding the difference between sex vs.…

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